I had a 6 month changing moment last night. Psyc had another row with H-Bomb in the week which I overheard the end of as he shouted ‘well I think you probably should as well’ down the phone as I went for my shower at 7.45 am. Far too early to be talking, yet alone shouting. On the back of that he got motivated to flat hunt, with the plan being that he, one of his course mates and me will get a 3 bed flat/house and live without the wrath of the Bomb. He found one that sounded really good- three
double bedrooms, furnished, and was ready to move into as soon as- which was no small achievement in the Plym. Me and Psyc viewed it yesterday, with Helen, the Lettings person, at about 5.15.
The best thing about it is was its literally a stones through from the sea- the views are of gardens and the sea, and I stood on the seafront, as the sun was setting and marvelled at the possibilities of early morning swims, fishing, and balmy summer evening barbeques. Then we went in the flat and it got even better- the living area was 3 times the size of where I am now, and there will be half as many people. There was a decked terrace where my Brazil hammock would make afternoon chill out sessions a dream, and it had 2 power showers, a dishwasher, and a separate dining room with a roof beam to do pull ups on. There was also a single bedroom that I imagined we could either use as a study, or rent out cash-in-hand to some of the visiting PhDs we get at work for a few months a year- this would make it slightly cheaper than H-Bombs abode, with an order of magnitude more advantages. The only problem I could envisage would be deciding who got what rooms; there were two were large but normal doubles, and one that had its own floor, ensuite and separate mini roof terrace. I couldn’t stop smiling as thoughts of summer evening parties, making a herb garden, and renting a huge TV swirled in my head.
Psyc was just as keen. We are very different people, but get on well and have an understanding that I lack with the rest of my current housemates. He was sure that Aro, his Portuguese course mate would be equally thrilled, and set off to give her a lift to show her the area.
This morning Psyc comes down and shows me a text from Aro saying that after sleeping on it she’s not sure about the place, and whether we would like to go and look at a house in a different suburb.
So annoyed!
Shes not even been in there yet! My summer house dreams may be in tatters. Psyc has said he will try to convince her today, or else we could try and get a third person in. I’ve never done that before but it must be fairly easy? I’m so sure I want to live there I would happily pay the extra rent for a month or two until we found someone else.
On the drive home from our viewing I said to Psyc that it feels like something has to go wrong- we surely can’t be this lucky?
Well maybe it has. Aro, who are you and what are you doing?
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6 comments:
Hope it works out & you get the place. Strange how someone can turn down a flat that sounds like that when they've never even been inside. Hell, I'd move in on the back of that description!
Finding another 3rd wouldn't be so hard, gumtree is a great source of flatties. Although, you do take a chance on who you let in...how much can you ever tell about someone from an interview & a "brief" meeting?
Randoms are just that: random. Sometimes it works out great, sometimes it doesn't. I guess your pal just needs to see the place and she'll be convinced?
Love your list of wants btw - so very male: hammocks, big-screen TV, a place to do pull-ups... All you need is a nice french maid to give out blowjobs on demand and you're set... :-)
Try and get someone else in. That's an opportunity not to be missed.
Go to easyroommate.com (not what it sounds like) and check that out.
I agree with the others (though not so sure about the French maid and random blow jobs bit). If the third doesn't want to go for it, I think you guys should just find a 3rd. If it's a longer-term lease, then sit down with potential third and try to get a feel for what he/she is like.
THanks for the excellent advice all. I am currently interviewing french maids as we speak...!!
No really- Friend and I between us have posted on Gumtree, Easyroommate, uni boards and intranets etc etc- Im awaiting calls from weirdos!
thats the spirit - of something seems to be good to be true, it probably is...
geez, talk abt being a party pooper. just relax and enjoy the moment will ya :)
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